The four loves eros summary. “The Four Loves” 2018-12-29

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CS Lewis’s The Four Loves

the four loves eros summary

They all do for my precious wife. It is not natural, It goes against our very natures. Where does Philios fit in? More often, you see a love story or a family saga than a tale whose focus is two platonic friends. In Eros at times we seem to be flying; Venus gives us the sudden twitch that reminds us we are really captive balloons. I believe we are all being encouraged to take Venus too seriously; at any rate, with a wrong kind of seriousness.

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Review: The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis

the four loves eros summary

Lewis provides an excellent perspective on this issue, and the idea of balancing different considerations, in his Eros discussion. For we must still beware - and never more than when we thus partake of the Pagan sacrament in our love­passages - of being serious in the wrong way. He expresses a strong distaste for the way modern society ignores friendship. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing. Taking his start from St.

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The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Review

the four loves eros summary

I think once I get his voice in my head I might read several of his books back to back. We should have to conclude that in that heavenly and forgotten life affairs were no better managed than here. Love is patient, love is kind. If our hearts need to be broken, and if He chooses this as the way in which they should break, so be it. Lewis states that just as Lucifer—a former archangel—perverted himself by pride and fell into depravity, so too can love—commonly held to be the arch-emotion—become corrupt by presuming itself to be what it is not.

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The Question of God . Four Loves

the four loves eros summary

It's important to retain the ability to laugh at oneself! I am sure we have all experienced this love. Of some a total renunciation but not a contempt is required. Milton has expressed more when he fancies angelic creatures with bodies made of light who can achieve total interpenetration instead of our mere embraces. And that is not love, just a demon, possibly, as it asserts itself wrongly. It is even well used a preparation for that. But they must fall in order, lest we treat them as a means and not an end.

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“The Four Loves”

the four loves eros summary

Just to list these is to see how reductive it is to equate love and sex and — as in so many modern contexts — to assume that sex trumps all other loves. The only place outside of heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all dangers and perturbations of love is Hell. With all proper respect to the medieval guides, I cannot help remembering that they were all celibates, and probably did not know what Eros does to our sexuality; how, far from aggravating, he reduces the nagging and addictive character of mere appetite. And a mortal man is not even the Sky-Father, and cannot really wear his crown. Nature will not verify any theological or metaphysical proposition or not in the manner we are now considering ; she will help to show what it means. في حين ان الكثير منها لم اكن قد سمعت عنه من قبل ان يذكره الكاتب.

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The 4 Greek Loves

the four loves eros summary

When I was a child, I used to talk as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; When I became a man, I put aside childish things. All this gathered up in adoration is the greatest of all expressions of which we are capable. All of the other animals have specific breeding seasons, wherein they mate and produce offspring. The six-chapter structure of the book is simple and logical. Lewis' candid reflections help the reader define and sort out the types of love common to human experience, and to determine their right and proper places and functions in relation to one another and to the over-arching love of God which is the wellspring of all human loves. His total commitment, his reckless disregard of happiness, his transcendence of self-regard, sound like a message from the eternal world.

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The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Review

the four loves eros summary

Eros, without diminishing desire, makes abstinence easier. But this, so far from obliterating the distinction between the two loves, puts it in a clearer light. Know your own bone; gnaw at it, bury it, unearth it, and gnaw it still. Lewis labored under no such delusions. God intended that man and woman produce offspring. They are Philia, Storge, Agape, and Eros.


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The Four Loves by C.S. Lewis Review

the four loves eros summary

Isn't that what we are all seeking? Lewis reminds us that the loves often mix with each other. Meanwhile, however, the likeness is a splendour. Better to be miserable with her than happy without her. And conversely, erotic love may lead to Friendship between the lovers. The interesting thing about this book is that when Lewis wrote it he had not been in a relationship he remained single until he met Joy Davidman, which is actually the subject of a book, a movie, and even a play so he is not actually writing from experience. There have been schools of thought which accepted the voice of Eros as something actually transcendent and tried to justify the absoluteness of his commands. Eros is necessary to continue life and most people are affected by it, and Affection is pretty much necessary to hold society together and most people are affected by it, but plain, strong friendship between individuals isn't something that any of us must experience, and plenty of us don't.

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The 4 Greek Loves

the four loves eros summary

And, I believe that without God in the picture, that love is not love at all. There were also tiny bits of snark that keep it from being too stuffy. Has it only just thought of this bright idea for improving the species? Originally defined as the fondness felt between parents and children, and vice versa, but here it has a broader definition. The world rings with complaints of his fickleness. Maybe I miss the point he is making. They expected that mere feeling would do for them, and permanently, all that was necessary.

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